Frequently Asked Questions
Interested in knowing more? Take a look through our frequently asked questions for information on our butler services, hiring process and pricing in Australia. Hopefully, we can answer all your questions here but always feel free to email our bookings team at info@butlersinthebuff.com.au who have years of experience planning and booking Butlers in the Buff parties and don’t worry we’ve heard it all!
Butlers in the Buff
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Can my butlers make cocktails?
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Of course – our butlers can prepare cocktails for your group. They aren’t trained mixologists, so you’ll need to provide the ingredients, glasses, and any equipment, along with simple recipes to follow. Some butlers may have more cocktail experience than others, but every one of them will happily join in and shake up the drinks for you.
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Can my butler play games?
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Definitely – having a Buff Butler run your games is one of the most popular parts of the experience. You can grab plenty of free game ideas from our site, and our butlers usually have a few favourites of their own they’ll be keen to host.
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Can we have more than one butler?
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Yes – you can book as many butlers as you’d like. As a guide, we suggest one butler works well for around 10–15 guests, and two butlers are best for larger groups. That said, some small parties prefer two, and some bigger ones are happy with just one – it’s completely up to you.
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Can I have just one hour?
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Unfortunately, one hour bookings aren’t possible. The time flies so we always recommend having two or more hours. Of course, if you are pressed for time you can always send your butlers away early –but surely that would just be madness!
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What can my butlers do? Your wish is their command…
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Welcome guests with a drink • Treat VIPs with special attention • Lead fun party games • Serve snacks or canapés • Prepare and serve cocktails • Greet everyone as they arrive • Participate in life drawing sessions • Help with tidying up afterwards
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Does the price change if we have the event on a Friday or a Saturday?
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No – our rates stay the same regardless of the day you book. You can hire a butler any day of the week without any extra charges.
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Can I pick my butlers?
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Let us know your preferences, and we’ll do our best to match the right butler to your event. While we can’t promise a specific individual, we always aim to accommodate your requests.
Some common preferences might include: no tattoos, tattooed, athletic build, slim build, or the classic “boy next door” look.
All of our butlers are carefully selected and interviewed. Beyond their appearance, they bring friendly, outgoing personalities and plenty of charm to every event.
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What does he wear?
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Our standard butler outfit includes a white collar, black bow tie, white cuffs, and a black apron. If you prefer a more covered look, they can wear black trousers or fitted black boxer briefs. You’re also welcome to add accessories to match your party theme.
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How far in advance do I need to book?
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We suggest booking 4–6 weeks in advance to secure your preferred date. Last-minute bookings are sometimes possible, but our butlers do get fully booked, so it’s best to plan ahead. If you’re unsure, just send us an email and we’ll guide you.
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Can my butler stay on at the party?
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You can request to extend your butler’s hours on the night, but this is subject to their availability. They may have other commitments, so we recommend arranging any extra time when you first book to ensure they can stay longer.
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Can we touch our butlers?
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Guests should treat our butlers with respect. You’re welcome to include them in party games, photos, and activities, and light, appropriate contact is fine. Please avoid anything that could be unsafe or disrespectful.
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Can our butlers pose for photos?
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Absolutely – the more photos, the better! We always enjoy seeing the butlers in action, so feel free to share your snaps with us. Let us know if you are happy for them to be shared on our social media. See what others have sent in here.
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How much should I tip my butlers?
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Tipping is completely optional. While it’s not expected, our butlers always appreciate any gratuity for great service.
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Can I see a photo of my butler?
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We understand you’re excited to meet your butlers! Due to our busy schedule, we sometimes need to adjust which butlers are assigned to each event. Rest assured, all our butlers meet high standards, and we’re confident you’ll be delighted with the team allocated to your celebration.
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Does he need somewhere to change?
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Yes – all butlers will arrive in smart clothes and will need a space to change into their uniform. This could be a bathroom, spare room, or even a cupboard. They’ll also need a secure place to store their personal belongings during the event.
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Do I need to provide anything for him?
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No – your butlers are there to focus on you and your guests. They may, however, need a water or soft drink break during longer events.
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How do I pay?
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Booking is easy – simply fill in our online quote form. All we ask for is a $60.00 deposit for each butler booked, this will secure your booking and is non-refundable. We will then email you a booking confirmation showing your event information – Your booking confirmation will also show how much you have paid, how much is left to be paid and when it will be automatically deducted from your credit card.
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Once I’ve booked can I change the time of the event?
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We can only guarantee time changes four weeks prior to your event. Within 21-14 days prior to your event we may be able to make changes in some cases but even small changes can be difficult to arrange due to the amount of bookings we have each weekend.
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How do I get hold of my butler on the night?
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We provide a 24-hour emergency contact that connects directly to the bookings manager responsible for your event. They can get in touch with your butlers if needed.
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What happens if my butler doesn’t turn up?
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If your butler hasn’t arrived, please call our 24-hour emergency contact immediately. We will do everything possible to allocate another available butler to your event as quickly as we can. Check out some of the ‘muscle’ on our butlers in our photo galleries.
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Is it possible to add butlers on to my booking?
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Yes – we’re happy to provide additional butlers. Two butlers are often more fun than one, giving your guests double the attention and entertainment.
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What happens if my butler arrives late?
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We suggest allowing at least an extra hour after your scheduled finish time to account for any unexpected delays, such as traffic or travel issues. While these situations are uncommon, you can be confident that you’ll still receive the full service you booked.
Cocktail Masterclass
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What happens during the cocktail making class?
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Your group will be divided into teams (depending on numbers), and each guest will get to shake, stir, and enjoy up to three cocktails.
Everything is provided for you — spirits, mixers, glassware, ice, and garnishes. Your mixologist will arrive about 15 minutes early to set up and make sure the class runs smoothly.
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How will my mixologist be dressed?
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Your mixologist will arrive in smart, professional attire — usually a shirt and trousers. They won’t be in butler uniform unless you’ve specifically arranged this in advance.
If you’d like a butler to join your class alongside the mixologist, we can organise that for you at an additional cost.
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Can I update my guest numbers?
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You can add extra guests before your booking, no problem.
The cocktail class has a minimum charge for 10 people, so if your group size falls below that, you’ll still need to pay for 10.
Payments are non-refundable and non-transferable if numbers decrease, so it’s best to confirm the minimum group first and then add more later if needed.
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Do I need to provide anything for the class?
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No — we supply all the alcohol, mixers, fruit, ice, and glassware needed for the cocktail making.
If you’d like extra drinks beyond what’s included in the class, you’ll need to provide those yourself.
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Can I change the time, date, or location after booking?
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Yes, but changes come with an admin fee:
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Time changes: $40
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Date changes: $50 (or $70 if within 7 days of the event)
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Location changes: $50
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Can the cocktail class be hosted at my venue or home?
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Yes — the mixologist can come to any private venue, as long as the venue allows it.
Houses, apartments, hens houses, cottages, and private function rooms in bars are all common choices. A large dining table works best, but a kitchen bench or similar surface is fine too.
The space must be private and not open to the public.
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Can I include a butler with my cocktail class?
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Yes — you can add one of our cheeky buff butlers to your booking. They’ll welcome guests, serve the cocktails made during the class, host games, and help with group photos. It’s a great way to bring extra fun to the experience.
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Can we choose our cocktails?
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Yes — you can request specific cocktails for your class. Just let us know at least 14 days before your booking.
Please note, Pornstar Martinis and Espresso Martinis carry a $5 per drink surcharge.
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What happens on the day of my cocktail class?
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All our mixologists check in with us on the morning of your class, so you don’t need to worry. They’ll contact you 20–30 minutes before arrival and call when they’re outside, keeping their arrival a fun surprise.
Make sure we can reach you at all times beforehand — if we can’t, it could affect your session or even lead to cancellation. Please also ensure there’s safe parking for unloading equipment. On arrival, the mixologist will need a private space to prepare so the class can start promptly.
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What if the mixologist is running late?
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We suggest leaving at least an extra hour after your scheduled finish time to cover any unexpected delays, such as traffic.
These situations are rare, but you’ll always receive the full 2-hour class, no matter what.
Life Drawing
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Do we need to bring our own drawing materials?
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No – your model brings all pencils, paper, and supplies you’ll need. Just turn up ready to sketch and have fun.
Upon arrival, your model will require a room to get changed in and be ready for a prompt start.
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How long is the class?
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Standard sessions run 1.5 hours – 45 minutes of life drawing, then 45 minutes of mini butler fun. You can extend the class if you want more time.
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Can we choose how nude the model is?
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Absolutely – the level of nudity is up to your group. Whether full nude or cheeky but covered, the model will follow your preference – just let us know beforehand so we prepare.
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What if nobody in our group can draw?
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That’s fine – it’s more about laughs than masterpieces. Everyone can join in, no matter your skill level.
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Will the model act as a butler?
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Yes – after the drawing, your model changes into Buff Butler attire to serve drinks, host games, and pose for photos.
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Can we choose our life drawing model?
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We’ll do our best to match your life drawing model to any preferences you provide. All our models meet the high standard shown on our website, so you can be confident you’ll be delighted with who we send.
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Can we add extra butlers or hosts?
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Yes – adding an extra Buff Butler keeps drinks flowing, games running, and energy high throughout the session.
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How many people do the materials cover?
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The provided materials are enough for up to 20 guests. For larger groups, additional supplies can be arranged at $10 per extra person.
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Do you supply the venue?
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The venue isn’t included, but we can come to your location or assist with venue hire if needed.
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When should we book?
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Ideally 4–6 weeks in advance. We sometimes handle last-minute requests, but booking early ensures your preferred date and time.
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Can the session be extended on the day?
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You can request extra time, but it’s subject to the model’s availability. We recommend arranging extensions when you first book to guarantee it.
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Can mixed-gender or LGBT groups book with Butlers in the Buff?
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Yes – we’re experienced in hosting mixed and gay events. To help us choose the most suitable model, please let us know at least 14 days before your booking if any male guests will be attending.
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Is tipping expected?
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Tipping is optional. It’s never required, but always appreciated for great service.
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Can I change the guests numbers after booking?
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You can add extra guests at any time, but we cannot provide refunds if your numbers drop. We recommend booking for your minimum confirmed group and adding others later if needed. The total number of guests you book is the amount you’ll be charged, and reducing numbers after confirmation isn’t possible.
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What happens if my model is running late?
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We suggest leaving at least an extra hour after your scheduled finish time to allow for any unexpected delays, such as traffic or travel issues.
Although uncommon, these situations can happen, but you’ll always receive the full 1.5-hour session as booked.
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What happens if the model can’t make it?
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Call our 24-hour emergency number immediately. We’ll do everything we can to send a replacement model to your location as quickly as possible.
Male Performers
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What will happen on the day of my booking?
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All our Male Performers check in with us on the morning of the booking so you don’t need to worry about a thing.
Your Performer will be in contact with you 5 – 10 minutes prior to their booked time and will telephone you once they are outside, keeping their arrival a surprise.
Please ensure that we are able to contact you at all times prior to your booking. If our models are unable to reach you, this may result in a loss of booking time or your booking being cancelled altogether.
Upon arrival, the performer will require a room to get changed in and be ready for a prompt start.
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Can I choose what my Performer wears?
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We can take preferences over what your performer comes dressed as, however, we cannot guarantee any particular costumes.
If you wish them to wear something particular we suggest that you provide this for them to wear.
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Once I’ve booked can I change the time or date of my booking?
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- If after the Booking Date, you wish to change the time there will be a $40.00 administration fee.
- If you wish to change the date there will be a $50 administration fee.
- If you wish to change the location of the Event there will be a $50 administration fee.
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Can I see a photo of my Performer?
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We know you can’t wait to meet your handsome hunk but due to the huge number of bookings, we have each week we don’t send images out.
We have the very best butlers and performers in Australia so we’re super confident you will be thrilled with who we allocate to you!
Plus we want you to be as surprised as the guest of honour – after all, you have put all the hard work in!
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Does he need somewhere to change?
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Yes, your performer will arrive at your accommodation fully clothed and will need a room to get changed into his cheeky butler attire. Preferably a bathroom. He will also need a safe place to put his belongings.
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Will my Male Performer come to a hired venue/bar?
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Yes! Your performer will come to any venue you choose providing that the venue itself has given full permission for him to attend.
Typically a house/flat, hens houses, cottages and private rooms in bars are popular venues. Your venue will need to be private and closed off from public view.
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How long will my Male Performer stay?
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Performers will stay for up to 15 minutes. After performing, they will take some photos with the bride, before leaving.
Due to the nature of the business, our performers are very busy and often work multiple jobs per night. Therefore, when booking please allow a 30-minute window for them to arrive.
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What happens if my Male Performer is late?
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We recommend allowing at least an hour after your scheduled finish time to account for potential delays, such as travel restrictions.
While rare, these situations can occur. Rest assured, you will always receive the full 15-minute service, regardless of timing.